Today we learned that an Italian family is OverThere and in the process of adopting the brothers. We knew from the beginning that this is a possibility. We are not hurt by this. Do not be sorry for us or for them.
Instead PRAISE GOD, that now that they have a family - and we can begin looking anew. We got into this because we felt led to adopt and while they were on my heart, obviously my purpose in their lives was to pray for them to find a family. He has called some to sow, some to reap, and some to harvest.
Friday, December 7, 2012
Saturday, December 1, 2012
And in other news....
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In other news.... we're at it again.
We know it is crazy - but we are starting the adoption process again.
Quit yelling at your computer screen.
Right now, we are targeting this group of brothers (ages 6, 5, 4, 2) from Eastern Europe. All four of them are in an orphanage. We have just started doing paperwork this week. The one in the blue shirt has developmental delays and a skin condition We don't know much additional information about them.
We can do simple arithmetic. We know that 2+4 = 6 (something many friends and family members have pointed out). We also hold the view that children need parents; we can not hold such a position and not be willing to stand in the gap.
Here is what started this latest round:
http://www.erpcsermons.org/Sermons/2012%20Sermons/2012-07-22-AM%20-%20JR%20Caines%20-%20Justice%20for%20the%20Oppressed.mp3
Saturday, October 20, 2012
Sunday, September 23, 2012
Juliana's 2nd Birthday
Juliana had her second birthday party last week.
Not bad for "maybe she die in four weeks, maybe six..." as we were told.
Not bad for "maybe she die in four weeks, maybe six..." as we were told.
Monday, June 18, 2012
A year ago we were home from Juliana's heart surgery and preparing for Elena's cleft palate repair surgery. Juliana was hooked up to oxygen machines and machines that beeped whenever her oxygen was low.
Juliana is walking now. She copies her big sister constantly (both good and bad). Elena loves bossing Juliana around. For example, Juliana tried to touch the hot stove door. Elena pushed her down and proceeded to lecture her (finger waggling, babble, and sign language), telling her NO!, that she needs to stop, the stove is hot, it will hurt the baby. Elena likes enforcing rules a lot more than she likes following them herself. While she loves being Juliana's conscience, if Elena would follow 1/10 the advice she gives to her sister she would get in a lot less trouble.
Elena loves singing karaoke. The hairbrush she is holding in the picture below is meant to be a microphone (thus helping to protect the real microphones). She likes the TV shows "the Voice" and "America Idol" because there are lots of people singing.
Juliana loves to be snuggled and watch the world go by. She is very tricky and clever. She plans her strategies two or three steps in advance.
The other night we were feeding the girls at the table. Juliana was on the left, Elena on her right. Juliana set her cup down on her left, so that Elena would not get it. Elena (not thinking), sat her cup down within Juliana's reach. Juliana grabbed Elena's cup, drank it as fast as possible (in case we gave Elena better water) and then carefully set Elena's cup down on her left side, well out of range of Elena. Juliana now has two cups, Elena has none. Elena cried "Momma! Momma!" and pointed at her stolen cup. Although we returned the cup, the same scene repeated itself throughout the night.
Both girls are grade-A unpacking experts. This is great, except that we are in the process of moving houses. We pack things into boxes. They immediately unpack the boxes and fling the contents onto the floor. In terms of energy and deviousness, we are outnumbered.
Juliana is walking now. She copies her big sister constantly (both good and bad). Elena loves bossing Juliana around. For example, Juliana tried to touch the hot stove door. Elena pushed her down and proceeded to lecture her (finger waggling, babble, and sign language), telling her NO!, that she needs to stop, the stove is hot, it will hurt the baby. Elena likes enforcing rules a lot more than she likes following them herself. While she loves being Juliana's conscience, if Elena would follow 1/10 the advice she gives to her sister she would get in a lot less trouble.
Elena loves singing karaoke. The hairbrush she is holding in the picture below is meant to be a microphone (thus helping to protect the real microphones). She likes the TV shows "the Voice" and "America Idol" because there are lots of people singing.
Juliana loves to be snuggled and watch the world go by. She is very tricky and clever. She plans her strategies two or three steps in advance.
The other night we were feeding the girls at the table. Juliana was on the left, Elena on her right. Juliana set her cup down on her left, so that Elena would not get it. Elena (not thinking), sat her cup down within Juliana's reach. Juliana grabbed Elena's cup, drank it as fast as possible (in case we gave Elena better water) and then carefully set Elena's cup down on her left side, well out of range of Elena. Juliana now has two cups, Elena has none. Elena cried "Momma! Momma!" and pointed at her stolen cup. Although we returned the cup, the same scene repeated itself throughout the night.
Both girls are grade-A unpacking experts. This is great, except that we are in the process of moving houses. We pack things into boxes. They immediately unpack the boxes and fling the contents onto the floor. In terms of energy and deviousness, we are outnumbered.
Saturday, March 31, 2012
Elena Turns 3
We recently celebrated Elena's 3rd birthday. She actually had two parties, one with family and one with friends and family.
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A year ago, we were there. We have had them less than a year. Last end-of-March was a blur as we had frantically packed and gotten on the plane (March 28th) (we had our appointment date a lot earlier than we had expected). Has it only been a year? Our lives have certainly changed a lot. We have certainly enjoyed our first year with our daughters (heart surgeries, cleft palate surgeries, tubes, late nights, dirty diapers, and so forth notwithstanding. The girls grow bigger and more alive and more beautiful with each passing day. No longer are they undernourished. No longer are they starved for attention. No longer are they unwanted.
When she turned three, Elena got to go to big-girl-school. She is in a per-kindergarten classroom at a nearby school. She enjoys going to school and is making strides towards toilet-training. She knows over 70 signs and is very communicative (either through signing or through her nearly constant babbling).
Juliana is starting to take her first steps. She will take a couple steps and fall over (usually because she starts excitedly clapping her hands when she stands up, and this destabilizes her). She is starting to pick up some signs, but she has the attitude of "signing is peasant work, my staff should attend my whims better". She understands when we talk to her. She has a verbal vocabulary, but often does not repeat herself. She will say a word, then realize that she spoke and not do it again (and certainly not when asked). We do catch her saying "Da-da" for daddy, "nanana" for banana and "up" on a semi-regular basis.
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| Elena on a slide |
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| Julianna going in for a kiss |
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| We get this look from Elena a lot. In this case, Daddy told her not to throw rocks. |
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| Elena had a rainbow-themed birthday party. |
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| And CAKE!!!! She understands cake and ice cream very, very well. |
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| So does Julianna. |
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| Elena got (among other presents) a doll and a stroller, which she likes a lot. |
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A year ago, we were there. We have had them less than a year. Last end-of-March was a blur as we had frantically packed and gotten on the plane (March 28th) (we had our appointment date a lot earlier than we had expected). Has it only been a year? Our lives have certainly changed a lot. We have certainly enjoyed our first year with our daughters (heart surgeries, cleft palate surgeries, tubes, late nights, dirty diapers, and so forth notwithstanding. The girls grow bigger and more alive and more beautiful with each passing day. No longer are they undernourished. No longer are they starved for attention. No longer are they unwanted.
When she turned three, Elena got to go to big-girl-school. She is in a per-kindergarten classroom at a nearby school. She enjoys going to school and is making strides towards toilet-training. She knows over 70 signs and is very communicative (either through signing or through her nearly constant babbling).
Juliana is starting to take her first steps. She will take a couple steps and fall over (usually because she starts excitedly clapping her hands when she stands up, and this destabilizes her). She is starting to pick up some signs, but she has the attitude of "signing is peasant work, my staff should attend my whims better". She understands when we talk to her. She has a verbal vocabulary, but often does not repeat herself. She will say a word, then realize that she spoke and not do it again (and certainly not when asked). We do catch her saying "Da-da" for daddy, "nanana" for banana and "up" on a semi-regular basis.
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